I am a work in progress, I know it can be done.
Often times we have encounters with individuals. Where we have no clue why they are in our lives and we often question what they are here for. (Can we just keep it real- I know I am not the only person that has posed this question. Right?) So we go on with our lives in hopes of everything being peaceful, because we think that life is just all peachy and stuff. Lol.. Yea right! So we keep on trucking. I believe we encounter 2 types of people in our lives, "haters" and "lovers" we most certainly know the difference between the two don't we? I feel that God offers us challenges in our lives. I call them "test" It builds character, because without these character building sessions. How will we ever see the potential of our growth? Babies don't stay babies too long. They eventually mature and have learned all of these incredible things that will allow them to make the right decisions as they go through life. Now! I am going to make this real quick, because I am sure you have to go to work and so do I. Lol.. In your journey of life. You will encounter some individuals that are easy to love. Love them anyway. In your journey you may also encounter some that you may find difficult to love. Love them anyway. I mean, some folks have hurt you beyond your hurt, talked about you, lied on you, treated you in such a way that when you woke up the next morning. You posed the question,
"Why me?" or " What did I do to deserve this?" A good friend and I were having a conversation and she said, " Why not you" Love. Love them anyway. Love them through you hurt, love them through your pain, love them through their lies, love them through their backstabbing, backbiting, and complete ugliness. You don't have to understand it. But the fact of the matter is. There is a much bigger picture to this test. That God is about to bless you. When you take your eyes off the problem and give it minimal energy. You will find that A. You are learning to grow in the midst of adversity and B. You are becoming stronger and shielding yourself from all things that are not of God. So the next time you come in contact with a spirit of uncertainty, the next time someone wants to start some mess with you and you don't have a clue of what or why the drama has started, the next time you are called uppity because you won't engage in a "circle" that speak in ALL CAPS and talks negatively about other's, and the next time you are labeled, " she thinks she is all that!" Love them anyway. The enemy gets mighty confused when you respond oppositely. You give him less power and you are on your way to a much stronger, less stressful you.. Just know that in the beginning of your transformation, no one but your "Lovers" will be able to understand why you are making the change, that you are making. They will even question you. Love them anyway.
(these scriptures came to mind)

Corinthians 10:13 - "No temptation has taken you except what is common to men. But God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, but along with the temptation he will also make the way out in order for you to be able to endure it."
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. - Philippians 4:13